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Do people not realize life is so short? Do they not care?! It just boggles my mind when I see people being so ruthless and mean to each other. First of all, I don't see how anyone has the time to sit around disliking people when there is so much life to live. Secondly, is there really "so much life to live"??? Nothing, not even including our amount of time here, is guaranteed. Do you think half the people in this world plan on leaving it when they do? The people who inspire me the most are people who have a vague idea of their life span... you don't generally see those who are told they have 6 months to live sit around complaining about stuff. So if that is true... if we don't know how much time we even have on this earth, why are people still going around being mean to others? Why are they belittling themselves? Why are people judging others instead of trying to make a difference? Why aren't people more concerned with their standing in God's eyes!!? Sure, not everyone believes in Him I know but that's besides the point.
Sometimes this very thing applies to me, as much as I know it's a waste of time. I sit around and mope too. I feel down and blame other's for it. But the truth of the matter is, no one can change a person, no one can make me happy but me, and as long as I am doing my best to be good to others that's all that matters. Not everyone is going to like me, no, not even those who call me a facebook "friend". Some people don't even have to have a legitimate reason to dislike you, they just do! (As immature as that is). Sometimes you work super hard and do a lot for people and it goes unnoticed, or you don't get the deserved thank you. Some people don't care to "make things right".. to forgive and forget. WELL... this year I have chosen to improve my sad feelings about stuff like that. I'm going to be better at forgiving and forgetting. My personal goals this year were work on all this and my self-esteem. I for one, don't want to waste my time on this earth having pity parties...I'd rather be happy and have real ones.
.. and cupcakes (;
(that's about as deep as it get's over here)
